Should you change jobs - purely just to get over someone.

[Ilovetomodell]

I love my job- aside from the fact that I was with someone that works for the same company as me. He is the love of my life, I'd do anything for him, and everytime my phone 'pings' with a new email - I hope it's from him. He is married ( but we had a relationship when he was separated) but he has gone back to his wife. We keep in contact mostly through work email, and he has let me down and hurt me so many times. I want to move on and forget him and have tried, but now I am thinking the only way to do this is to leave my job, because I know then we won't contact each other again. I met him 3 years ago ffs!!! Is this a good enough reason???

Oh and he isn't stopping you from moving on, you're stopping you from moving on. Take back the power you have surrendered to this chancer.

Oh and he isn't stopping you from moving on, you're stopping you from moving on. Take back the power you have surrendered to this chancer

^^ this. Where's your anger OP?

I left my previous job to get away from a toxic relationship, it was truly the best thing I could have done, the situation was like groundhog day, my heart was being broken on a daily basis and there was no way I could move on when I encountered him every day. And he seemed to be able to sense when I was trying to move on because then he would start things again. It was torturous! I got over him quickly once I was out of the same environment. I was sad to leave my job, but the one I'm in now is even better, I had to do it for my sanity. Good luck, OP, you have my every sympathy.