ok so here it is, i'm divorced with a nearly five year old daughter, my job is killing me off as i have a disease that's not easy to live with (no its not yucky its a pain thing)...ex husband enjoys using fb to rub ones face in his mexico holiday with new wife and two kids ... i'm finishing up another degree to get new work.. and i have other courses on the go.. nobody wants to say yes i like your job application and well yes... everything seems a bit stuck. there seems to be snail like movement. I have got to a point of...what is it i really need now??? anyway thankyou for letting me vent this out and share. xx