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My bitch of a mother

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Rhubarb · 23/10/2006 12:55

I was supposed to have my brother for most of this week, it being half term. I took the week off work. It required a lot of planning because my mother and I do not get on and I didn't want her in my home, so I agreed that I'd meet her halfway (1.5 hr drive as opposed to 3hr drive) with the kids in the services for lunch and then drive my brother to ours. Only now she's gone and thrown a spanner in the works just to make a point. He apparently cannot come now until Friday and he gets picked up by my sister on Sunday, which means I only have one full day with him!

And she had a bloody go at me on the phone - she still thinks she's the innocent party and we are all evil, naturally!

If it wasn't for my brother I wouldn't have any contact with her at all, but whilst he is still with her I have to keep doing these things and no matter how hard I try, she still manages to get to me!

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Rhubarb · 24/10/2006 21:58

Thank you!

I've resolved it! She was going to call me and tell me that she couldn't drop him off till later on Friday. But instead I've arranged that carnation will take him with her to Kendal on Friday with her kids and I'll take mine and we'll all meet for lunch as we were going to do anyway, and go to the Beatrix Potter museum and stuff. Then I bring him back with me, spend Saturday with him and most of Sunday before meeting her Sunday afternoon to drop him back off. This way I'll have dh with me too as extra backup!

I get to see my sis after all, I have a bit more time with him and I don't have to see her and him on my own. Most importantly, she doesn't have it all her own way!

Thanks Carnation for suggesting this!

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MamaGhoul · 25/10/2006 20:16

oh I am glad Rhubarb. Bet you're really looking forward to it now

DarkAlleyBongo · 25/10/2006 21:09

i'm glad it's sorted. I can't get on here as much anymore. You'll have a fabbo time mate

Rhubarb · 25/10/2006 21:10
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