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Fulfilling girlfriends fantasy.

35 replies

Circumspice9 · 08/02/2015 11:18

My girlfriends birthday is coming up and so I asked her what her fantasy is (not very a romantic way of finding out I know!), she told me she wants to cuddle with me all day on her birthday. I do not have university or work on the day of her birthday so I am able to do this. However, in order to make it as special as possible for her is there anything that I should do? I was thinking about maybe making her breakfast in bed on that day? And then making her favourite meals for lunch and dinner? Any advice would be great! Thank you!

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Cantbelievethisishappening · 08/02/2015 11:38

An egg McMuffin and a bottle of Blue Nun should do it.
Then you can ask her again about her favourite fantasy as I sense your disappointment at cuddling all day Smile

VixxFace · 08/02/2015 11:43

Cuddling all day ya na.

flatbellyfella · 08/02/2015 11:43

Get a Guy Martin DVD for her to watch in bed. & a bunch of Aldi roses.

Cantbelievethisishappening · 08/02/2015 11:48

You could get her one of these for the day..... while you cuddle Wink

CogitoErgoSometimes · 08/02/2015 12:06

As every good tutor will tell you... 'read around the subject'. Your girlfriend may have said 'cuddles' but she will be expecting a surprise gift. Something thoughtful rather than flashy. Maybe something she's mentioned in the past.

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Circumspice9 · 08/02/2015 12:34

Oh, I have got her some surprise gifts. There was a necklace she liked so I have got her that and a ring and some other pieces of jewellery.

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MrsWolowitz · 08/02/2015 12:36

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 08/02/2015 12:36

Then hide those under the napkin as a surprise and that's a very nice day

CogitoErgoSometimes · 08/02/2015 12:36

Then hide those under the napkin as a surprise and that's a very nice day

DropYourSword · 08/02/2015 12:37

Just be very careful she doesn't misinterpret the ring!

vinegarandbrownpaper · 08/02/2015 12:48

Is it all day in one place or like walking around, going to the library etc?
If its in bed then heating, clean and tidy room, nice sheets and something on the floor to continue with. Good dvds and -A DOUBLE SLANKET- oops.. a comfortable way to spread out on the floor. Ice cream and nibble food, and make a lunch or breakfast in bed perhaps.. cooking together can be nice too. Cut your nails short and file/buff smooth

vinegarandbrownpaper · 08/02/2015 12:50

Er massage oil (neal's yard).. flowers in the room perhaps (not freak seduction flowers just nice ones) and a fluffy suit oh darn.. fantasy leakage!

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Circumspice9 · 08/02/2015 13:02

Thank you for the advice!

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Circumspice9 · 08/02/2015 13:23

It is all day in one place vinegar.

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brightreddress · 08/02/2015 13:37

Cut your nails short and file/buff smooth Not that kind of 'cuddling' vinegar!!

DropYourSword · 08/02/2015 13:43

Still a good suggestion!

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Circumspice9 · 08/02/2015 14:17

Thank you for the replies!

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TheyLearnedFromBrian · 08/02/2015 14:40

Don't forget drinks, food etc. This is going to be a long and physically gruelling cuddle and you will need to be prepared. Perhaps some Kendal Mint Cake?

vinegarandbrownpaper · 08/02/2015 15:02

For the massage brd.. the massage!

brightreddress · 08/02/2015 16:04

lol - of course!

worrieddadof2 · 08/02/2015 18:26

I always thought the advice was that fantasy should remain just that......

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Circumspice9 · 08/02/2015 20:30

Thank you for the help. I want to make sure it is a very special day for her.

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FinallyHere · 08/02/2015 21:42

Box of mars bars.

And possibly a change of sheets.

BigRedBall · 08/02/2015 21:46

Get some good movies to cuddle to. I like horror and action movies. I Love cuddling to a good horror.

RosyAuroch · 09/02/2015 09:21

Couples massage with mobile massage therapist, or if that's too dear/there's no one locally, buy a massage book and some nice oils as a present and give her a massage yourself. Read the book first or look up some techniques on youtube. Also make a playlist of relaxing music to accompany teh massage.