Should I worry?

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My oh says I please her when we are together, but I know I don't last that long. I try to ensure that she enjoys things but I think she's trying to make me feel better. Should I worry? What should I do?

Spotted you on the zombie thread, OP. FWIW I would believe her, based on my own experience :)

one word - foreplay!!

waves at TSP

...and yes my own experience definitely features foreplay!

I don't think we are short on foreplay, but if anything that speeds me up
Hope I'm worrying over nothing

I would say (from experience) that if there's plenty of foreplay that's fine. Men seem to think that lasting ages is a good thing, but I think most women would tell you there comes a point where you just get bored! Most of the fun for us comes before penetration!

I have to admit I do like the sex part lasting longer. With my current we have lots of intermittent play as well as foreplay (for as long as we can handle) and him stopping for a while prolongs penetrative sex.

Maybe that could work? Condoms are an alternative but I dislike the feeling.

Xxx

I would believe your partner too. I think if you both are satisfied at the end and enjoyed yourselves then that's the important thing. focussing on how long it was will just create more anxiety for you.