Where is the list of red flags on here? I thought it was a sticky.

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Anyone know?

Look at the thread titled 'Listen up everybody' at the top of the page.

Is that what you were thinking of? It is a great opening post.

here's a link or two

www.psychologytoday.com/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/200812/are-you-dating-abuser

www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/manipulator/emotional_abuse.shtml

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2089279-Definitive-list-of-red-flags

... or four ...

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2006796-Some-questions-about-abusers?msgid=45321855#45321855

... or 5 ...

www.drjoecarver.com/clients/49355/File/IdentifyingLosers.html

that should do for a start! :D

Thank you!

Thanks for this. I am worried that any potential relationships will turn out to be abusive/turn abusive and want to get boundaries in place.

Why is that Woowoo?

Haha sorry my comment was very odd in itself!

Just left an abusive marriage. Ex H was emotionally abusive. I kept changing and changing and walking on eggshells and all the rest of it to "make things work" until I couldn't take any more. It ramped up after DS was born big time.

Still not sure a) why I put up with his shittiness and disrespect and b) how to avoid in the future.

Red flags I should have heeded. Share yours for the benefit of womenkind I don't know if this is what you might have seen at some point? This was the first thread. Started by me under a previous name. The reason I changed my name was because of Red Flag Knob stalking me, ironically. There was a second thread, as this one filled up. Will post next.

Red flags I should have heeded #2

Thanks uncrushed - not for me, thankfully.

Woowoo well done for leaving.