I have joined an online dating site for larger sized people. I am sure I am only looking fr casual dating/fun but...

[SoleSource]

I am dreading the sexist and judgey stereotype that men in my experience have of me looking for marriage and trying to trap them as if no Woman could ever just want them just for fun.

I hope you understand what I mean as I am going into this NOT wanting a long term relationship, on my terms.

Could I ask which one? I didn't realise that existed!

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Queen there are hundreds of these sites )

Hope you have fun Sole. Don't assume the worst.

I use OLD for casual relationships and haven't had any problems with this. Be up front about what you want and I dont see any reason why a decent bloke will take you at anything other than your word. If they do assume that, then you aren't interested in them anyway...says a lot. Get rid and find another.

I don't understand the motivation to join a dating site that labels and defines people by their physical attribute (size). Doesn't it put people into a "category" from the word go?

OLD is full of men looking for a bunk up. Seriously, if you are clear you are just after 'fun' they'll come flocking.