When I was younger I was very depressed, abusive family issues, etc.
Spent time with a lot of emotional vampires, people I had nothing in common with, just would feel very, very down after spending even a brief period of time with them.
I moved away from the lot of them YEARS ago. Best decision ever.
Occasionally, I'll get tracked down by one of them
(I'm fairly "hidden" they've obviously gone to a lot of effort to find me
)
What is the response recommended? The trouble is, they're the type who tend to say "the reason you aren't in touch with us is you have ISSUES you're obligated to get in touch with us". I have nothing in common with them now and do not want to share information, give any details of my life to them, it creeps me out.