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What do YOU think???

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Eeeeewwww · 09/10/2006 14:44

My dp had a vasectomy a week ago, he has worn the SAME underpants since, he hasnt even taken them off when he goes to bed! he hasnt takent them off to get a bath or shower because HE HASNT HAD A BATH OR SHOWER - how gross is that? he is always like this though, the longest he has gone between having a bath/shower that i counted was 5 months - yes 5 MONTHS!! i chucked all his socks out 4 months ago and bought him 3 packs of 4 new socks and he has only opened one pack and worn 3 pairs out of it - in 4 months!!!! - seriously, i kid you not!! i cant stand this behavior anymore what can be done? he even sits and picks his nose and eats the contents ALL the time, needless to say, no he never gets his leg over and he wonders why he is 29 and should know better!

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desperateSCOUSEwife · 09/10/2006 20:47

I am suprised he was able to get the snip

Did the doc who operated have a gas mask on

Blu · 09/10/2006 20:49

Some women find this sort of thing sexy. Apparantly.

Could you not just be a bit more broad minded?

schneebly · 09/10/2006 20:57

God - I thought my DH was bad!

You need to have a good chat with him!

BATtymumma · 09/10/2006 21:00

well whatever happens don't sjag him or you'll get minge rot

winnie · 09/10/2006 21:03

I think this behaviour points to someone in the throws of depression. A member of my extended family was depressed and acted like this and didn't notice or care what impact he was having on the rest of the household. Are there other things that could point ot depression Eeeeewwww?
Stating the obvious you really do need to speak to your dh but sadly if he is suffering from depression there is very little yo can do until he accepts there is a problem.

hairymclary · 09/10/2006 21:05

that is absolutely disgusting.
i wouldn't even live with someone like that, let alone share a bed with them

Emskilou · 09/10/2006 21:15

Dirty minger, ugh its vile making me gag just thinking about it, all the germs and dirty bed bugs in your bed. Can you stand him in the garden and hose him down?? Or a jetwash maybe? As with the bogey eating that is horrendous, you sit and watch him do this? What have you said before? [vomit emoticon]

BATtymumma · 09/10/2006 21:17

in all seriousness, does he work? surely someone must comment on the fact he's a minger?

plus if he has just had a Vasectomy then he could well end up with an infection and his cock could fall off....if that doesn't get him into the bathnothing will

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