I'm 66 my wife passed away after 41 years of marriage. I am now in a relationship with a wonderful lady a young 6 years my senior. Problem when making love to her a I cannot stimulate her to the point of orgasm. I had no problems at all with my late wife. My new lady seems not to have any really sensitive areas that turn her on and I have tried oral, digital, physical and mechanical(!) means to no avail. I feel as though I am just using her for my own pleasure. With her late husband the only way she achieved orgasm was by riding him. HELP!!!!