After an awakening iam now aware now in my forties that my mother has npd and my father was a enabler for my mother.my father had drink problems.i have been my mothers scape goat since at a young age when i look back and put the pieces of the jig saw together it all makes sense. Iam treated differently and don't the same respect as the rest of the family siblings have been taught to view me as less than as well.to add insult to injury me and my siblings signed my mothers will for me to find out a day later tha my narc mother made younger siblings golden boy executors of the will apparently two siblings knew what was in the will! Sums up the way scape goats are treated any body else have same problem?