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In law problems!!

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blondenessie888 · 08/11/2014 13:44

Currently living with my in laws while we save up for a place.

Both MIL and FIL driving me crazy! MIL especially sees me as a threat and has said some truly horrible things in the past. Including asking my OH 'who has done more for you, who has been around longer?' Referring to me. And telling me to my face she didn't care if I moved out and wanted my OH to stay.

She is very clingy and likes to play the victim. Does a lot of loud crying in very obvious places (i.e outside our bedroom door) and starts screaming matches regularly with anyone close by.

FIL makes comments on my spending habits (buying the occasional thing off eBay) and made comments when I bought myself a car on finance to get myself to work as my old one packed up!

Very frustrating. Got another year of this before we can even think of moving out. Can't leave any earlier. Need a bit of advice on how to get through the next 12 months...ConfusedConfused

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cheerupandhaveaglassofwine · 08/11/2014 16:31

Really £600 a month rent to live with your inlaws

I don't even get that per month for the 3 bed semi I rent out

And if we did have to move in with the inlaws for whatever reason they wouldn't dream of charging us that much if we were trying to save for a deposit

After all the less you are paying the quicker the deposit is saved and the quicker you are both out of there

drudgetrudy · 08/11/2014 16:50

They sound horrible. Could you find lodgings house share together? Would OH reallly stay there and let you move into lodgings on your own? Is so you have a problemSad

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