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Mothers who ave em !!

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whatisforteamum · 18/10/2014 10:51

i just got off the phone to my mum dad who has cancer is out of hospital.I was checking on his welfare.My Mum asked about a job i applied for.I decided against it as it was min wage and i was already doing double hrs at my present job.
I told her there had been a hoo ha as enviromental health had been called when the place got flooded this week.peoples jobs were at risk if the person was discovered.
Her response was to pretend to be writing derogatory comments on social media knowing full well it could lose me my job!!
she knows that with 2 teens and my husbands change of personality this yr has been v hard.Exams (both of them).then a summer when DH decided todo his own thing or stonewall me.She knows i was worried about Dad and her cancers.
When the dcs were small she called social services as she thought i wasnt feeding them enough.The lady who came out apologized as they have to follow things up and said she could see they were well cared for and she was sorry i had a mum like that.i was the one under weight with no support at all.
i feel she is quite deranged.Thanks for reading.

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FolkGirl · 18/10/2014 13:59

Stop phoning her...

Horsemad · 18/10/2014 14:06

No contact, no contact, no contact.

FolkGirl · 18/10/2014 14:14

Seriously, you have no idea how much easier everything else will be to deal with without her involved.

Quitelikely · 18/10/2014 14:42

What do to mean 'pretend to write comments' ?

How can they get you sacked if she pretended?

Foncused here

whatisforteamum · 18/10/2014 16:14

while i was on the phone she said ".....place" what a shit hole pretending to write it i checked she hadnt what kind of mother would do that!! what about my Dad though he is a decent quite normal man.what if i have nothing to do with them and he dies? i have little contact with my siblings now i dont want to be completely alone though.

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