How Sure How Good I am in bed

[SoftlySpoken502013]

With a new woman (both 47). Sex for me is always great and its been the case for nearly 21 months. She says its the same for her and we have sex on average 3-4 times a week. Sometimes we have had sex 3 times in a day. Sometimes 5 days of out 7 although that's not meaning 3 times a day 5 out of 7 days. Yesterday she said she had 2 orgasms. We both got home frm work and having not had sex fr a few days we had it straight away (she hadn't even taken her coat off) and she had an orgasm. We then had a bath (or barff for those in the south lol) and then had sex again. She sed she had another orgasm! I am not sure if she is lying!

Women dont need a refactory period so can have multiple orgasms, in comparison who usually need a little rest (20 minutes, an hour, a day, whatever) so yes it's perfectly possible.

Do you have any reason to believe she's lying? If not- crack on.

Most women take significantly longer than men in order to orgasm, though, so honestly if you're going straight to PIV sex without any clitoral stimulation/on a position which doesn't offer any...I'd be skeptical about her finishing up after 5 minutes.

In comparison to men**

Dislcaimer; all women and men are different. All beliefs are own, etc.

She is lying

Why do you say that Kato.

Have you never had an orgasm before you've even taken your coat off then Kato?

None of us know if she's telling the truth or not but from a physical point of view then of course it's possible she had two orgasms in an evening.

of course it's possible. Why wouldn't it be?

On cold places I have - for example Bergen but not in the sarf.

Lucky her

Does your mum know you're on the computer at this time?

Thanks for the comments. I suppose I can be the only person to work that out. Is there any way of telling Ladies? I don't think she is lying but tbh I wish she would. I am knackered. I just can't say no to her for fear of her going elsewhere. I must admit I want it as much as well and it is me that initiates. Trouble for me is that whereas she orgasms every time (apart from once....which was our 2nd session in the day) I cannot orgasm every time but want to keep going to please her so I am knackered. Any advice?

I'm sorry but this reeks of 'I'm an amaaaaazing lover'...

I wouldn't say that tbh Ouch. I have realised that the way to please someone is to think about them more than about yourself. Making other people happy in your usual day to day life is always the best way to be happy. That applies to men equally as women. If you think about it at 47 we have had enough sex and I think most men see every time as if it will be there last so they are selfish.

Softly, I would believe her. If she comes that easily and often that means her vagina must be too close to her clitoris. According to daily mail it has been scientifically proven. . The shorter the distance between the vagina and clitoris the easier it would be for a woman to come. So a task for you tonight .

I think your fishing for compliaments if you can make a women orgasm once never mind twice then yes you're excellent in bed. You're an adonis, but you know that anyway.
Is that what you want to hear.
Give yourself a pat on the back.

What a strange post OP... but I would assume rather than you being amazing or her lying, it's just normal for you. I can orgasm probably about 12 times in a row if I want to, and can orgasm within a couple of minutes of penetrative sex with little/no foreplay. I usually only have to stop because I'm so unfit exhausted my lungs feel like they are on fire. Either my OH is a legend or my vagina is too close to my clitoris

I wouldn't assume she's lying, it is perfectly possible, especially if you haven't seen each other for a couple of days, for her to be very excited to see you and to orgasm quickly.

If you're finding it a bit much, perhaps you could try doing things for her that don't necessarily involve you too, give yourself a bit of a rest so that you can be at your best later?

I usually have several orgasms each time, but most often with dp using his hands, then once I'm done I reciprocate. If one of us can't handle it or doesn't feel like it, we can still do something nice for the other one.

Hopefully your relationship is based on more than just sex, so saying you don't feel like it sometimes won't send her rushing into someone else's bed.

Overslept, how do you think your post is going to make OP feel about his abilities? 12 times versus 2. , .

Why do you need to ask here, rather than checking with her? It makes you look a bit creepy tbh.

optimistik, OP needs to up his game.

OP I hope you picked up the dry cleaning bill for the coat

No its not based on just sex Penelope. Although there is quite a lot . And as for you 2 (overslept and optimistic)!! I am now going to sulk for the next few hours.... lol