What is wrong with me?

[GettingItOutThere]

Im a long time lurker but name changed for this.

I don't even know how to put this without sugar coating - i don't like sex.

I love affection/foreplay etc but ''going all the way'' means tensing up, hurting and ending in tears.

Im in my early 20's, been with two guys properly [few times with each]. Had the best fun with another guy that I didn't go all the way with...no pressure etc.

wtf is wrong with me? I know it's not normal and frankly ruining my life at the moment as every new relationship I screw up as I freak out, as guys want sex...I don't

Go to the GP and ask to be referred to a therapist/counsellor/hypnotist.

There could be all sorts of deep seated reasons for this, or it could be physical. Either way it's really not insurmountable and you shouldn't let it ruin your relationships.

Thanks, i thought id be wasting their time to go....

Anything else is fine - i dont tense up but every single guy I meet I dump pretty much straight off now as I know what it's going to lead too - which is pretty awkward .....