Just found out stbxh had a 4 year affair

[Hesaysshewaffles]

I am divorcing ex because I found out about his year long affair last year. There's another girl I already had my suspicions about and suddenly she's come out of the word work saying she'd had a 4 year affair which ended when we got married - she was a close friend of ours. I actually feel sick at te thought that all this went on behind my back and feel like such a twat!!

poor you. it kind of confirms though that you are doing the right thing. betrayal is a horrible thing, isn't it.

HUGS!

Please don't you feel like a mug! Hes the fool here, he obviously has no integrity what so ever! Neither does your ex friend by the sound of it, which is why it is all the more important that you maintain yours. The bloke is evidently scum, you have had a lucky break, go out and find somebody lovely who makes you happy and respects you and commit him to your distant memory to rot! Clearly you were always to good for him and his Jeremy Kyle fodder lifestyle!
Upwards and onward, Good Luck OP :)

He's a cowardly conman. Pity his next girlfriend, move on and have a great life