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still paying for EA exes ebay?

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candyce83 · 17/08/2014 19:27

some background info, I was with my exDP in a lesbian relationship for 2 and a half years, she dumped me completely out of the blue. There were mental health issues and EA. It really broke me but Im trying to move on with my life. We have been split for 2 months. Since then I have lost 90 pounds paying for all her ebay fees. I also sold some doc martens on there which she took the money for.
A case has now been opened against me for some vivienne westwood jeans she sold in May which didn't reach the buyer, who now wants a refund…

I am getting pretty mad about this when i do not earn a lot of money to live on and don't see why I should have to pay for someone who treated me like absolute shit and was abusive AFTER the breakup. she also made it so difficult for me to get all of my stuff that i just left it…(we lived together and she had near enough all of my belongings except for a suitcase) i sent a very to the point adult text just asking if she would get in contact with the guy to sort things out. Of course she hasn't done that but i do feel better having stuck up for myself when i usually would have just paid it like a mug.

I feel so frustrated with this woman. i just don't know what to do about this situation. can anyone shed some light on this??

OP posts:
candyce83 · 17/08/2014 19:27

why can't she just do the decent thing?

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LIZS · 17/08/2014 19:29

Can't you just change the passwords so she can't use your account ?

candyce83 · 17/08/2014 19:33

She isn't using it….this was all from before we split. I only got the news that a case has been opened up against me. Im just wondering what other fees are gonna catch up with me.

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everythingsgoingsouth · 17/08/2014 19:38

I think you should refund the buyer of the jeans if the account is in your name, the "contract" is with you.

She should do the decent thing, but is obviously used to you bailing her out. you are better off without her i think.

keep your chin up, you deserve better,good luck poppet.

candyce83 · 17/08/2014 19:42

Thank you for your kind words everything. Smile

Oh I will definitely be paying the buyer i wouldnt not. I just don't understand how some people can be so mean?

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Adarajames · 17/08/2014 21:11

Because they just don't care about anyone than themselves I'm afraid! Hope you feel better and start to enjoy your freedom from someone just not worthy of you

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