So on Thursday I get a bolt out of the blue! Through the wonderful world of facebook I received a message from a bloke who I dated for a month 16 years ago when I was 15 and lost my virginity to him. 5 years ago he messaged me to but I was happily married (I am now going through a divorce) Both times he has messaged me asking to meet up, obviously 5 years ago I said no but I am thinking about meeting him on Friday night for a drink. The thing is he seems VERY convinced that we are going to have a relationship and is being very full on saying that he wants to "make our lives worthwhile and be happy" and that he should never have dumped me! I don't know weather to be extremely flattered or extremely cautious.