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Original poster

Hypothetically speaking.....

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Fatmanbuttsam · 03/08/2014 19:02

So, a question to ponder.....sex...or to be more precise, rarely unreciprocated sex.....for you would that be a no-no.....or would love and companionship be enough for you along with some DIY .....

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Walkacrossthesand · 03/08/2014 19:21

Don't understand the question, sorry.

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Fatmanbuttsam · 03/08/2014 19:28

To be precise....if your partner lived receiving but not giving oral sex would you have an issue

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Squidstirfry · 03/08/2014 19:41

Yes.

Squidstirfry · 03/08/2014 19:42

I would also assume said person was that selfish in other ways too.

GilbertBlytheWouldGetIt · 03/08/2014 20:12

Are you the partner in question?

HumblePieMonster · 03/08/2014 20:29

Not sure this is a serious question.
However...
if I had a partner who wanted oral sex and didn't want to give it, I might think that was selfish and unreasonable. and therefore refuse to give.
if I had a partner who only wanted oral sex and didn't want to give anything else, he would swiftly cease to be my partner. most likely, he wouldn't have got that far anyway.

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