problem with dh -advice needed

[kiwimaria]

my dh is really doing my head in at the moment.He keeps breathing all the time and sometimes he even wants to talk to me.
I am so that he won't do as i ask and just BE QUIET and stop breathing.
His mates tell him to take no notice of me and do as he likes .He should stick up for me though.All i want is absolute control of every aspect of his life-that's not too much to ask is it?
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If you continue to allow him to treat you this way, you are setting up patterns of behaviour your children are destined to repeat. Is this really what you want for them?

God how insensative can he be!!!!!
He'll be asking if you want him to do house work next!

I would tell him either the breathing stops or your off.......................

bloody men