my vaginisimus/have it themselves and know the problems it can cause (ie no sex, or certainly very infrequent)................TMI bit coming up now for those that wish to look away
DH and I have had sex TWICE this week!!! It's a bl**dy miracle - that doubles the number of times we've succeeded since DS2 was concieved (he'll be 3 in November) . (really TMI bit coming up now). Still painful when he started to penetrate (well I did it so I could "control" LOL the speed of entry ) - which did rather kill the passion a little
"wait..........ok..........no hang on a minute..........STOP...........ok........" etc etc etc.
But once we got going it was fine! DH can't believe his luck LOL.