Huge age gap. Is it ok or not? And what would be considered grooming.
(Both women)
Situation - they had seen each other around (live near one another), clearly giving each other the eye over months, clear find one another attractive.
40 year old thought the 20 year old was older and slid into her DM's.
20 year old happy to chat back, they both fancy one another, 20 year old assumed 40 year old was younger.
After a week or two of talking, flirting and having a laugh via chat, both then find out each others ages.
20 year old entirely unbothered.
40 year old completely horrified and now wondered if the 20 year old had inadvertently been groomed by her.
40 year old now does not know wtf to do.