Name changed. My partner got mad at me last night and started throwing stuff around the bedroom. Today he told me it's over and called me all kinds of names I have remained calm and told him if that is what he wants to do then I can't argue but we need to be mature and civilised for the sake of our DC. Being calm seems to have angered him more he started to hit himself in the head and saying I want to be with you forever and that he wanted to die. I'm confused and a little scared but I think best thing is for me to leave. Can anyone tell me is there some kind of checklist I should have as what to bring? Sorry if this makes no sense I'm actually a bit stunned by it all.