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Original poster

Proposed marriage but is still friendly with ex's what should I do?????

4 replies

lozzawoo · 30/07/2006 20:58

My partner is a great guy but still keeps in touch with his ex's or people who still hold a torch for him. He does not see any wrong in this as he calls them friends now. Am I over reacting please help! He is helping one out with a computer tmoro ??????

OP posts:
babywhiting · 30/07/2006 21:09

sounds the same as my dp!!! he finds no wrong in having friends that are ex's but things are stopping!!!!

Original poster
lozzawoo · 30/07/2006 21:11

Things are stopping?? u giving him an ultimatum?

OP posts:
flannelettepyjamas · 30/07/2006 23:46

ex's are different from "people who still hold a torch for him"
It is perfectly possible to have a platonic relationship with an ex as long as they both know that it will remain just that.
I don't think I'd be happy for DH to be seeing someone who still held a torch for him.

hairymclary · 30/07/2006 23:48

do you trust him? if so then forget about it. you are the one he has chosen and if you trust him then it shouldn't be an issue.

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