I am somewhat taken a back that my last exp has taken to going around telling people that I broke his heart breaking up with him. This is now the third person who has told me he has been saying this.
We went out for 4 years and at the beginning he was a charmer, funny and seemed to care for me and my ds from a previous relationship so all went well at first. But a few months into the relationship he changed into a Jekyll and hide controlling arsehole.
He would drink a lot and call me vile names such as scum and a rat and telling me that I had no class. And who did I think I was. We would break up because he said I wasn't behaving myself and it was my fault. Then he would turn the charm on and say sorry.
I then got pregnant and he told me that we ain't fucking having a baby and to get rid. I was undecided and was due to talk to a councillor but he went mad and told me like fuck are you doing that I don't want strangers know ing my business. Every day he would phone me at work and scream down the phone asking if I had gotten rid of it yet.
Anyway it turned out that I was bleeding and was referred to a and e. he came with me. They admitted me and it looked like I was losing the baby. He left me in the hospital and flew off to see his parents abroad for Xmas. Turns out I was in hospital for 6 days with an ectopic pregnancy and was very scared in my own.
They operated through keyhole and took the baby and my tube.It was my first Xmas away from my ds and luckily my relatives stepped up and looked after ds.
When I told him what was going on and asked him to come back he refused saying that he thought I was only having a miscarriage and that he wasn't coming back as he was with his family and I wasn't part of that so had no right to ask him to leave.
I got out of hospital very sore and upset, he eventually came round to my house and told me again not to tell anyone his business.
We broke up as he couldnt handle seeing me like that, sore and upset and left me.
Now he is going around telling people I broke his heart. Sorry for the long post but I'm pissed off he is saying that. aibu in thinking he shouldn't be doing this