Stbxh has asked for the childrens 'Christmas wish list'. WIBU...

[wellthatsdoneit]

if I replied that the children would like vouchers from any British supermarket for food and clothes given that he has paid a total of £400 in maintenance over the last 2.5 years?

Go for it.

Little Johnny and little Susie just want to know that they can eat regularly, have heat and a roof over their heads.

( Wonders if your children are really called Johnny and Susie)

What a dickhead!!

Wish list??? Yeah, not to have a tight arse for a daddy.

YANBU. Vouchers from sainsburys and an envelope of cash to give to mummy to go towards the rent please.

A direct debit to your energy company might appeal ? Only problem with that is that YOU'LL be warm as well and he might not like that

That's it Monet in a nutshell - make my life extra tough and if the children are penalised in the process well that's just a bit of collateral damage. He can't forgive me for continuing to exist after he buggered off with someone else. I've been terribly inconvenient to him in that respect.

Ah well, having a good rant on here about it makes me feel a bit better.