Sex in cars

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My new boyfriend has been dropping hints that he wants to try this and I can't decide how I feel about it - part of me thinks there's no harm in it and part of me thinks it's kind of seedy and something only teenagers with nowhere else to go do. Is it quite common and 'ok' to do? He's not into dogging or anything and said he'd want it to be private but where would you even do it and could you get in trouble if you got caught?

Haven't done it since I was a teenager, but I'd have nothing against having go if I was 100% we wouldn't get caught!

God those were the days, was a regular occurance in the early stages with DH-nowhere else available being the reason.
Would have to be spontaneous now though or where's the fun?

Excellent news Bit. Isn't it funny how much better it is when you've left behing a shit relationship, too? :)

DH and I have done this a couple of times, but it's always been spontaneous - can't see the excitement in planning it, tbh!

It can be really hot. Especially in a soft top with the roof down. I can't say I feel quite so frisky driving around in my people carrier

Exp and i did a lot of this as teens.

One memorable occasion was up a country lane we had used a hundred times before. Mid shag i heard a voice yelling something. Turned round an there was a teenage boy running towards the car shouting 'move the car!' So a bit embarassed we started getting our things back on. Teen kept shouting something that sounded like cars. Exp wound the window down and said that we were leaving but before he had the window up again a HUGE herd of cows started hurling themselves down the very narrow country lane towards us. Exp started the car and tried to reverse but it was no good. The cows were faster and we just had to stop the car and wait for the whole herd to clamber all over his car knocking both wing mirrors off, smashing the front light and making massive dents all over the bonnet. Tbh we were very lucky to get away with such little damage. As soon as the cows were past we sped off for fear of the farmer Phoning the police on us for trepassing. After that a gate was put up at the start of the lane

In the rain over the bonnet on a warm summer evening in the middle of nowhere....spur of the moment and exciting! Planned, in the cold in a car park, probably not so exciting! I've always liked the thought of being caught though....

At my age has no appeal especially in the winter. Seem to remember hot, uncomfortable and messy from our younger days.

I don't see what the problem is but agree with a lot of what's been said already-it will probably be uncomfortable etc. but I would try and find out what he has in mind to put your mind at rest.

He shouldn't be doing anything that makes you uncomfortable but if what he suggests does it for you, then I can't see the problem.

It is probably just a bit of 'man in new relationship' syndrome-if he has had a barren patch, he probably wants to try everything he has seen in all the porn he has been watching!

Harmless fun provided it is within boundaries. And yes, spontaneous is surely more exciting than going out specifically to search a quiet lane...

my shagging in the car days are long gone - i reckon i'd get stuck :)

be careful of the dogging though! Loopdaloo -with you we had house with huge drive and started off indoors

Done it a fair bit. Not arsed about being seen, I figure they would have to be pretty sad to be watching me!!!

To follow on from the cow/car story .. Me and exp went into a country park.. Had sex in the wood... In the day.... Then came out to find a barrier had been closed and we were locked in. Not the best day of our lives. Much to-do with the wardens and a call to the council (that was me being pro-active as he was petrified) and it got opened. We were in an affair at the time... Wife's best friend was in park with her kids. If this story isn't enough to put anyone off an affair then I have plenty more shit tales.

Arf at What Car is it ?

Hopefully not a Mini

Personally, sleaze just turns me right off.

Get suspicious if he tries to film you, or other car headlights appear...

Go for it! Me and DH did this a lot before moving in together, long drive home from the pub/beach/whatever. Also, on the seafront (not in a car) walking home (to holiday home) or random field out walking in thesummer. Its exciting!

Go for it!
As long as neither of you are .
Their excuse? “He pulled out quick to avoid a child”!

other car headlights appear That's a thought... you might not know he's an exhibitionist until you've been an exhibit!