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Do I tell my friend her boyfriend is cheating?

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elsabel · 16/10/2013 22:58

Ok, so just that really. Found out today that an affair my friend has suspected her boyfriend to be having for a while is true, and not just hearsay, a reliable source told me details etc. I imagine it makes me sound a terrible friend for even contemplating not telling her, but im not sure she would even LTB and the consequences could be terrible. Wwyd?

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Wellwobbly · 18/10/2013 09:47

I was desperate for an anonymous phone call, someone to tell me what my gut knew but he was denying, and my denial not wanting it to be true. Because in that fog lies insanity. The hurtful truth is so much better!

Go with what Leaven says, calm facts and then leave her with it.