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Is this "normal"

37 replies

Redtartanshoes · 14/10/2013 22:35

Massive back story and lots of crap but basically...

What would you think if dp/h took his goon to the toilet, is standing having a piss.. You push door open (to take washing off radiator) and he jumps a mile (phone in hand but then turned into leg)

Initial thoughts?

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Redtartanshoes · 15/10/2013 07:15

I've done it.

Just need to stay string now. Totally non contract.

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ScaryFucker · 15/10/2013 07:16

Well done. Now the really tough bit...stay strong and don't be swayed.

Redtartanshoes · 15/10/2013 07:38

Anyfucker?

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Hissy · 15/10/2013 07:45

Good for you love! How are you doing?

ScaryFucker · 15/10/2013 08:07

Yes, Hallowe'en disguise Smile

mammadiggingdeep · 15/10/2013 08:22

Well done red tartan! No contact is your best friend in this situation...you have done the best thing. If you start to wobble just think of how shit it feels to wonder what he's up to every time he picks the phone up.
Hope you've got some good friends you can talk to in rl
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FuckyNellItsHalloween · 15/10/2013 08:36

Yes well done op.

Boosterseattheballcleaner · 15/10/2013 09:05

Well done Red, keep posting if you feel like wavering and hold tight onto theat feeling of freedom. No one deserves to be on "high alert" constantly, it would have made you paranoid, miserable and on edge.

Congratulations on your new found freedom.

Flowers only onwards and upwards from here.

Boosterseattheballcleaner · 15/10/2013 09:06

theat? wtf is theat?

That!

BonzoDooDah · 15/10/2013 10:11

Wow - good on you. Be strong - focus on how much brighter your days can be now without worrying about what he's up to now

ChippingInNeedsSleepAndCoffee · 15/10/2013 20:55

Well done you! You did that early this morning :)

Are you not living together?

Redtartanshoes · 16/10/2013 00:07

No thankfully not.

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