About 15 years ago my dh and I shared a flat with another couple with whom we were close friends. We were very young, stupid, drank too much etc.
At the time I suspected flirting between my bf and my friend but never challenged it. One night we all had a big fight, drink fuelled and over something unrelated. We moved out, went our seperate ways and have never really been in touch since. My bf and I got married settled down and I heard on the grapevine so did they.
The other night, they came up randomly and I don't know why but I asked dh if anything had happened between him and friend. He confessed they had snogged once on a very drunken night but both felt horrified at what they'd done. I think the resulting tension led to that fight.
My dh was very remorseful, blamed youth and stupidity. He hadn't told me as he didn't want to hurt me but couldn't lie when I asked outright.
My dh has been a loving and faithful man for the last ten years. We haven't heard from or seen the couple for nearly 15.
I just don't know what to feel. Life has moved on. We do make mistakes in our youth but I am angry that my friend at the time snogged my bf and cheated on her own bf.
How would you feel?