Is it just DP and I that don't have any of the above - I don't even have sexy knickers as he prefers them not to be on at all and I would die if he brought home (which thank god I know he wouldn't) a vibrator or anything - we both talked about it after I went to an A Summers party the other week (they had games that made ne blush and we had to shout out rude words and some of them I didnlt even know the meaning of!!!) and now think we must be the only couple who don't indulge - don't get me wrong I am perfectly happy with that side of our life, I can't understand why you would buy a plastic todger if you have a perfectly good one at home to be honst but maybe I am just a prude - no please tell me I'm not the only one though!!!! 