How to deal with a high sex drive .... me not him (TMI warning)

[PinkPerks]

Hi lovely peeps x

I have a very high sex drive and whilst my partner enjoys sex, he would be happy to have "relations" every couple of weeks. Me on the otherhand could have it 2/3 times a day lol

My DH says he still finds me sexually attractive but he says that he is "too old" and "tired" after working all day. He does work in a physically demanding job but he then sits at home for 2/3 hours before bed plonked on the sofa. I on the otherhand have had to take drastic action to wear me out and have bought a treadmill :-D

I always read about men having a high sex drive but I wondered if any of you lovely ladies also have a high sex drive and how you manage it? Obviously there are certain "toys" we have but I miss and crave the contact with DH than enteraining myself ....

I am 33 and OH is 40 this year.

Pinky xx

I always have. My DH doesn't though. We haven't had sex for 3 weeks which is the longest in a while.

If I initiate it, then we could be doing it 4/5 times a week or more

I'm the same. DP is lovely, he's just not highly sexed, at all, ever. We have gone whole months without sex, which is shit. Nowadays I let him initiate sex, because it's just so withering when I reach for him and he pushes me away. Makes me feel like shit. DP says he's tired too. Or just not in the mood.

I masturbate instead. DP & I are both 33. I wouldn't do 2-3 times a day, but I would do every other day. Dangerously excessive in DP's book.