My partner wants a threesome

[beamer]

Hypothetically he would like another woman what would you do ?

I would ask him what he actually wants to do...

speak for yourself lockets

i'd tell him to go ahead. get divorced and screw him over for all he has. i would ruin his life and probably fuck rampantly with strange men. i would cut up all his possesions, he would leave with no clothes, cd's computer anything. i would be completely evil and put an advert in the paper announcing our happy divorce due to infidelity and his picture.
i would piss on his only clean outfit
i would sew fish into his work bag and the hem of his coat

if mine asked for a 3some id tell him to get stuffed and get divorce papers sorted.
Sorry but i would.
he married me , not me and some tart from down the road.
so there !

rock on jeremy kyle !

my fave quote has to be
'i've seen more fire in a damp squid!'

yours sparkler?

sorry for hijack by the way but i did put my tuppence worth in!!

:o

ok Custy....don't f*ck with her me thinks!!!

or in dh's case fck only with me

lol..

I'd say yes as long as I could pick the other person, then I'd pick the roughest looking mate I had - one that I knew he couldn't stand and mention that she was into gender f*ing - or suggest his best mate. That should be enough to put him off

I'm a bit confused by the "hypothetically". I do think it makes a big difference whether he seriously wants to go ahead and have a threesome if you're willing, or whether it's a fantasy and he has no intention of fulfilling it with you as he knows that would be walking into a hornet's nest and really, he is quite happy with you on your own. If it's the latter, then truthfully, I think this is a fantasy that a lot of men have had at some point. Doesn't mean they want to actually do it.

Threesomes can be beset with problems. Although it may be talked about at some length amongst you both it could irrevocably change your relationship for the worse. Real life and fantasy are two very separate things.

What if he fell for the other woman?. Watching the two of them may change your view of your relationship with him forever. It will cause a lot of emotional pain for you and him.

Fantasies such as these are really best left as fantasies.

I would tell my H to dream on!

Custy - remember that question you asked about nymphs? Well....................!

if you think you would quite like to try it, then I think you can hire a hooker to come just for a bit & then disappear.
I have a friend who did this for her dh as a birthday surprise. She hired the hooker, gave her the money & told her that she could give her dh a blowjob & then leave.
Her dh thought he'd died & gone to heaven. My friend wasn't bothered about it, as she had been present the whole time & it wasn't as though he was forming a relationship with someone else. Worked a treat by all accounts.

Yeah, let's just use hookers eh? After all, they're not real people, just pieces of meat that you can order about!

oh dearey me

lets talk peg bags
i need a peg bag

You don't have to Rhubarb! Hookers make their living selling sex. You pay them to have sex, just like you pay other people to wipe old people's bums or clean toilets. Whole different argument, as to whether prostitution is right or not.

get him a blow up doll or two and yourself a dvd and some chocolates

So is it just me then that finds the idea of paying a hooker to blow off your dh very repulsive and disgusting?

And at least when I wiped old peoples bums, I was treated as a human being by them, they made me tea and gave me treats. I didn't have a pimp waiting to beat me up if I didn't wipe enough bums and I didn't have to worry about one of the old people raping or beating me either.

Well, this thread is about threesomes, which alot of people may find repulsive & disgusting!!! Different people have different attitudes towards sex. I mooted an idea, I am not saying anyone should do it.

Fair enough.

beamer you have to know whether you can do it - and then be done with the experience. I mean, are you going to be troubled by remembering having seeng him making love to another woman? I don't think I would like to see that in reality and I'm not sure that I could cope with the hurt of remembering it. Maybe some people can , but I wouldn't be willing to try it with a man I really cared about.

would you be willing to try it with a man you didn't really care about the, SSSandy?

is this the man who doesn't fancy you or who you don't fancy?