I genuinely can't work out here whether I'm being unfair here.
Was recently friended on FB a while back by someone I had a fling with a couple of years back. I thought no harm, things ended on good terms.
We've chatted a couple of times but I feel uncomfortable for several reasons.
He frequently sends private messages instead if just posting on my status (this will make sense only to those who use FB..eg I saw you said 'x,y,a' me too). Err..why not just put that on my status?
He keeps pushing to meet up "for coffee"- I don't want to and said so, his reaction was to keep pushing. I said I would think about it (all the while thinking no - why did I not just say no?).
If I don't reply to messages he sends I get a barrage of messages saying how concerned he is, am I ok..am thinking yes I'm fine thanks, just don't want to talk to you...(have ignored the last batch, he keeps going).
Now, I'm reading this back and thinking that if a friend or poster on here described the above I'd tell them to block and ignore. However, for some reason I feel I'm bring unfair to him as he hasn't said or done anything awful, just left me feeling a bit creeped and weirded out.
I suppose I just want to check if my instincts are correct?