Hi, so a bit of background...
Me and DM used to have a fab relationship until we had a big falling out over her DH and our wedding which resulted in him not coming. We had it all out about a month after the wedding and she made it clear she was sticking by her DH. Fair enough... Except as time goes by, relatives keep telling me about things that happened on our wedding day such as him getting drunk and calling her saying he was going to set the house on fire and threatening my Godmothers DH when he escorted my mum home (at 7pm) to check everything was ok.
Anyway fast forward my DS birth...i t