Help needed!

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Ok, so i've been snooping. Bad i know. But in my DH's emails there is some from MyFunBuddy.co.uk

He hasnt read any of the messages but on the website is his nickname, age, sex and that he is straight. It seems from the emails that he has joined in December but his history shows there is nothing he has looked at recently.

What do i do? Is it definitely him or could he have been signed up some how??

That's great advice thank you. Will speak to him and see what the fucker says.

He'll either claim to know nothing about it and suggest that the site cloned his details from somewhere else, or he'll tell you that a friend has probably signed him up for a lark. He's lied to you before, it will be no different tonight. Expect him to counter-attack about you snooping by the way - that's fairly standard in these situations.

Of course you are strong enough. But you need to move out of this denial about the man you married. He sounds ghastly.

You need to have a very serious " you need to grow up for this relationship to work" talk with your DH. My DH & many others would never use such sites, indulge in this sort of behaviour, visit porn sites, etc. This Jack The Lad stuff needs to be left behind if he is to be a mature partner in a serious relationship. There is unfortunately a degree of tolerance or even admiration for this, basically, adolescent behaviour. He needs to become a grown up & you need to let him know that you won't tolerate anything else. ( I mean social tolerance, ESP among "the boys.)