A couple of weeks ago DP and I had a discussion about living arrangements. We decided to set up a 6 month trial of living together by having him move in with me during the week. So he stays here every week night coming straight from work and leaving for work the next morning. I agreed to this under the impression that he would help out towards groceries etc - this is yet to happen and not only does he not financially contribute but he's started making specific requests of what he wants me to buy too.
On a friday he finishes work at 11.15. I knew he had a few things to do so assumed he'd be back about 3pm. At 3.30 I get a text off him saying he's at his mothers house and she's cooking him tea and he'll be with me as soon as he's finished!! I'd already taken stuff out for tea so I'm annoyed that he just buggers off to his mother's house for tea without letting me know when he's supposed to be 'living' here. Its starting to feel a bit like he's using my house as a hotel for when he feels like being here.
AIBU to be feeling a bit miffed? this was rude behaviour wasn't it?then again I'm in a shit mood today anyway so maybe I'm over-reacting.
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I feel like i'm being taken advantage of somewhat!!
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SweetBrownJes · 18/01/2013 16:02
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