If you've started a thread about your relationship within the last six months, would you give us an update here?

[colditz]

It boosts morale to see people who have implicated changes and got it to work. I'm always curious about how these things turn out, and hardly ever get to find out

I posted after discovering a long term affair.
Update: not really a lot to report. We have separated but he spends a lot of time in family home with dc. He wants to get back together. I don't know what I want. Hoping time will tell??

Unless OPs come back and update their own threads or begin new ones to celebrate their progress, there's no context or point of reference to set changes against, colditz, and that minimises the effort they may have gone to alter their lives/relationships.

I suggest you exercise patience or pm any OP you have particular concern for, or add a response to their thread to ask how time has treated them.