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Lack of sex/intimacy in new relationship

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Nashville · 24/11/2012 18:07

Only been together 6 months but have progressed quickly and he sleeps at my house about 4 times a week. After the first few months of shagging like rabbits on speed, I noticed it was always me that initiated sex so I made a decision to not instigate sex at all since last weekend. Well, despite him staying at my house 4 nights this week, we've had sex once (last tuesday night) and that was only because I kept kissing him and making it obvious that I was up for it.

Apart from this, he never touches me or anything unless we're in the foreplay zone. It's all getting a bit like "mates" if you see what I mean?

The rest of our relationship is good. We go out a lot, he treats me well, he's funny, generous, kind - its just this part that is lacking.

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AMumInScotland · 24/11/2012 18:25

If it makes you unhappy, then I think you need to have a conversation with him about where he sees the relationship going. If you're not careful you could have him moving in and treating you like his mum.

HowDoidelete · 24/11/2012 18:38

Could it be that he's knackered, his age? (Clutching at straws...)

Lavenderhoney · 24/11/2012 18:52

Does he just get into bed with you, peck on cheek and trn over? As its your house am assmng he isnt up after you have gone to bed? Is he doing a very demanding job all day or something?

Is it More convenient for him to stay at yours, ie you have a lovely clean place and run about after him and it's close to his work? Have you ever stayed at his?

Have you asked him?

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