There are four of us in the family all married and all living in different countries. I had a major row with one DB last year which ended in him refusing to continue his role of Godfather to dd1 (5 yrs old). So things not good there. DM went to visit him last month and when there organized to spend Christmas there with all the other siblings. She told me yesterday as an "oh, by the way ....." I am not upset that they would all have Xmas together. I am upset at the complete and utter exclusion and further by the casual way I was told. No recognition at all of the fact that I might be hurt or would like to have been invited.
So would I be U to slowly cut ties?