I've finished 50 Shades and am ashamed to say my sex drive has dropped!

[bigbluesky]

I am ashamed to say that, even though I thought the 50 shades book were a load of rubbish, it did wonders for the old sex life. Now i've finished them my sex drive has definately diminished. How can i get it back?

I thought their piece on sexless marriages last month was good. And it was unbiased (didnt focus on how its only women who lose their libido and pointed out that in a lot of cases it happens to men too.) The therapist Andrew G Marshall made it clear that he knows of many men who go off sex too.
He said just as many men go off it as women do.

Seems about half the women at work have read 50 Shades and are desperate to encourage the other half to indulge. I opined that Mr Gray sounds like a total arsehole and I wouldn't touch him with someone else's. "Are you mad?" said my colleague.

Not mad enough, clearly.

I haven't read 50 Shades. I'm allergic to anything that's been over hyped.
I did read the first Silvia Day book. I found it very very disturbing. Not the sex. The characters. Two victims of childhood sexual abuse having super fucked up sex is not my idea of erotic.