Have just had a blazing row downstairs with Dh about a text to work colleague that was on his phone 2months ago -now deleted. It was about work but sent at 10.40 at night. He hadn't mentioned this colleague ( much younger than him - mostly male envronment) but had a look on FB and she's on there everything hanging out mostly male friends all commenting on her ( half naked ) photos. He was so annoyed that I dared question why he had sent a tex so late at night "WHAT? What bloody text - there's my phone etc etc!" he 's now lying on our bed watching bloody telly while I'm silently raging in kids bedroom. Why did he get so defensive and lie about a text that WAS on there?