We are not talking at all and here is my thread for background info www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1580085-H-and-I-had-heated-and-possibly-over-honest-confrontation-in-counselling-now-he-is-not-speaking-to-me-at-all... Anyway, to cut a long and fairly boring story short, yesterday h did not come back home. I had heard him on the phone to someone else a few days ago saying he would be away tuesday and wednesday but he was still around at lunchtime yesterday and then phoned our son later on in the day to get a phone number. He is not talking to me but nor did he tell our son that he was in fact away for the night (which he does fairly regularly). During the night I woke up at 5.00 am and he still wasn't back. I did think he might have gone away for work but of course did not know for sure so other scenarios were going through my mind. I went back to sleep and phoned him this morning at 8.00am. He confirmed that he was away for work - I then said that he hadn't told me or the dc and then rang off as of course we are not talking - it's all pathetic isn't it???
Anyway, I phoned my aunt and told her all of this and she reads h's actions as a real signal that he wants to be totally separate from me. I myself think he is assuming that I have totally had enough so in the light of this is living his life separately. I do think it is strange that he wouldn't say anything to the kids though.
What would you make of this??