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Original poster

AIBU to my brother away from me son

71 replies

BlueBirdsNest · 01/10/2012 23:14

Don't your dare ever ever ever try and touch my child again.#

I have reported you to the the police before and I'll do it again if you come anyway me or my again

OP posts:
pictish · 01/10/2012 23:15

What has occurred?

WorraLiberty · 01/10/2012 23:36

Are you going to elaborate?

timeforanewname · 01/10/2012 23:37

Eh?

PickledFanjoCat · 01/10/2012 23:39

What's going on?

McHappyPants2012 · 01/10/2012 23:40

You sound stressed what is the problem

MrSunshine · 01/10/2012 23:41

I don't think your brother is hanging out on aibu.

FannyFifer · 01/10/2012 23:42

YABU as no one knows what the fuck you are on about.

Original poster
BlueBirdsNest · 01/10/2012 23:42

i am angry ......

my brother got my son to go and met him at my my sisters house

OP posts:
whatsoever · 01/10/2012 23:43

The title doesn't make sense, nor do your subsequent posts OP Hmm

timeforanewname · 01/10/2012 23:45

How old is your son? Why can't he see your brother?

Original poster
BlueBirdsNest · 01/10/2012 23:46

sorry ......my apologies sexually abused me .........he has done they seem thing to my child ......no is invited to meet him t my sisters.....

I totally understand it won't make any sense to else but me

OP posts:
WorraLiberty · 01/10/2012 23:47

OP you're obviously very upset

But if you want to discuss this, you'll have to take a deep breath and tell us what's actually happened.

Original poster
BlueBirdsNest · 01/10/2012 23:47

he can't see my brother because he climbed into bed with him and fondled him

OP posts:
timeforanewname · 01/10/2012 23:47

How old is your son? Is he ok? Phone the police.

PedanticPanda · 01/10/2012 23:47

...where they preceded to hurt him?

I don't understand sorry, could you explain more? Your brother convinced your son to meet him at your sisters where I'm guessing he hurt him in some way based on this; Don't your dare ever ever ever try and touch my child again.I have reported you to the the police before...

If he hurt him then yanbu, but right now yabu for being so cryptic.

FannyFifer · 01/10/2012 23:49

Have you phoned the police, if your brother abused you how is if even possible he could be anywhere near your son?

PedanticPanda · 01/10/2012 23:49

Crossed posts...

Shock was your sister aware of what was happening too? How is your son now? Did anything happen?

MadBusLady · 01/10/2012 23:50

If that happened, OP, you need to report him to the police now. What is stopping you?

ScrambledSmegs · 01/10/2012 23:50

Have you reported this incident? You should definitely report every single incident, if you're saying what I think you're saying.

YANBU btw.

Original poster
BlueBirdsNest · 02/10/2012 00:04

fannyfifer i'm asking myself the self question

OP posts:
WorraLiberty · 02/10/2012 00:06

Have you called the Police?

ThreadWatcher · 02/10/2012 00:07

Im sorry this has happened (to both you and your son) :(

But given that you knew what your brother was like why, how did it happen that there was even the slightest chance that he would be able to get near your son? Shock

needanswers · 02/10/2012 00:08

call the police, otherwise you are enabling your brother to abuse your son

Original poster
BlueBirdsNest · 02/10/2012 00:11

he is 19 .......my brother likes earlier young adult and youngsters.

If he even goes anywhere none my son i will opnen the police investigation again .......He is not getting near my my son

OP posts:
FannyFifer · 02/10/2012 00:12

Your son is 19 or your brother?