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Twitter/facebook I love you's?

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donotsquandertime · 01/10/2012 20:35

Just curious really, if any of you have twitter or facebook do you message your partner in the day with I love you's/make statements on twitter sort of " I am so lucky have best husband" type of thing, norm or not ?

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LemonDrizzled · 03/10/2012 19:43

Are these FB communicators the same people who put messages to their dead relatives in the local paper? (Which presumably is avidly read in the next life)

They clearly feel very strongly and passionately about their loved ones, but lack a way to communicate so use FB or the paper to express themselves. I read them and feel sad/pitying/nauseated depending on my mood.

I'm with Ian Hiscock and prefer the Stiff Upper Lip myself!

flowerygirl · 04/10/2012 22:14

I think if someone changes their relationship more than 5 times with the same person, it should automatically update to 'unstable'

AberdeenAnxious · 04/10/2012 22:49

I also dislike the gushing 'I love you' statuses too. I have a couple of friends who do it on birthdays and anniversaries and such like.

My dh occasionally send me an 'I love you' private message, but that's only when he's working away and no one else can see it.

Mind you, I'd rather people gushed about their husbands than Mr fucking Grey... Hmm

AberdeenAnxious · 04/10/2012 22:50

Hmm, didn't need 'also' and 'too' in the same sentence!

dondon33 · 05/10/2012 03:31

Hmm, didn't need 'also' and 'too' in the same sentence! :) :)
You're forgiven- it's just the sheer frustration of FB :)

Flowergirl PMSL, although it sounds like a very good FB "cause" or "petition"
I actually would like and click :) I would quite like a whogivesafuck button too.

Berniebennett · 05/10/2012 05:46

I agree with all the above it's so infuriating! Even when my partner was on your of afghan we rarely had public displays of emotions (unless it was an accident) we always sent messages private, as I messages him every day!

Luckily I have a fab group of friends who would jump straight on the post saying something like,pass me the sick bucket, so it wouldn't have the desired effect of wanting approval from them, bless!

ChristineDaae · 05/10/2012 06:17

Mrskaygee* I think we must share a FB friend! I had this recently too, down to posting a pic of the hospital chair they were sleeping in. WTF?!!
My worst FB friend for this is actually someone I'm close with in real life. Every week she does and excercise class and EVERY week we get an update in the class and how her amazing/gorgeous boyfriend had a bath waitin when she got home. Err actually I know he's a complete dick to you, he could never be seen as gorgeous. And the bath thing - we know he does it EVERY FUCKING WEEK!!!!Angry

snuffaluffagus · 05/10/2012 16:41

I usually just post "blurk" under such status updates. Fortunately only a couple of my friends do it.

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