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How long were you together before marriage/living together?

94 replies

Schema · 14/09/2012 09:02

Probably been done before but ...

How long were you and your OH together before you a) got married and b) moved in together?

Just curious Grin

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ChippyMinton · 14/09/2012 17:07

Was invited to dinner 'as a friend' and never left BlushGrin Do I win?
Got married between DC2 and DC3, so 3 years (to the day) after getting together.

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ChippyMinton · 14/09/2012 17:14

Joins Hecate and spiffysquiffy in the reckless naughty corner Grin Still going strong 13 years later.

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QuietTiger · 14/09/2012 17:53

Met in the February, became friends, started dating and "moved in" together in the August (actually just split our time between our 2 houses), engaged in the December, I moved into his house the following March and we were married the following August.

So 12 months as a couple before getting hitched and 18 months of knowing each other. :)

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Pascha · 14/09/2012 17:53

Just under 2 years.

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goingtoofast · 14/09/2012 17:54

Moved in together after 5 months, married after 11 years and 3 children!

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Squitten · 14/09/2012 18:10

Moved in together after a year, got engaged after 5 years together

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Sianilaa · 14/09/2012 18:11

Engaged after 3 weeks.

Moved in after 8 weeks.

Married 10 months after 1st date.

We've been married 5 years and have two children, so far so good.

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rosiesmartypants · 14/09/2012 22:08

Moved in after 2 years, married after 2 years 10 months :D

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Myliferocks · 14/09/2012 22:10

Moved in together 13 months after we met.
We had our first child 2 months later.
Nearly 17 years later and we're still not married.

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HairyToothbrush · 14/09/2012 22:41

Been together 3.5 years
Had DD a year ago
Moved in together 11 months ago
Not married though.

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WilfSell · 14/09/2012 22:43

Moved in together after 3 months.
Had children over a 10 year period
Been together 16 years in total.
Got married this year Grin

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rarebreed · 14/09/2012 22:50

Moved in together after 2 weeks.
Dc1 was born when we had been together 4 years, Dc2 was born 3 years later.

We got married last Saturday after nearly 8 years together Grin

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HokeyCokeyPigInAPokey · 14/09/2012 22:52

Engaged at six months

Moved in together at seven months

Married at four years

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Tricccky · 14/09/2012 22:57

4 years til we moved in (we met v young). Married 4 years after that.

Had our first child on the 10 year anniversary of our first snog!!!

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RedDevilBattery · 14/09/2012 22:57

We've been together 2 years. Moving in together before Christmas (hopefully). Getting married next year (hopefully). No children together.

Congratulations rarebreed!

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cece · 14/09/2012 23:53

Met 1986.
Moved in 1994
Married 1999
First DC 2001

We don't like to rush things.

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ThePieWhoLovedMe · 15/09/2012 00:21

Met: Aug 2000
Pregnant: (planned) Six weeks later
Moved in together: 7 months later
12 years later : Still not married

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Keepthechangeyoufilthyanimal · 15/09/2012 00:23

Were together for 3 years before living together and 8 years before marrying Smile felt like I waited a long time to get married! Been married 2.5 years now

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LadyLetch · 15/09/2012 00:32

We met in 1997, when I was at university.

We moved in 16 months later, when my university course had finished.

We married after we had been together 4 years & 4 months.

It took this long for us to buy a house (we bought after renting for 7 months, but the house needed a fair bit doing to it ) and then to save up for the wedding. We married with no debt. I guess we could have married sooner, but I was terribly sensible Grin

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Vasilisa96 · 15/09/2012 13:19

met... engaged the next day... married ten days later... still together after nearly ten years. That's a Modern Indian "Arranged Marriage" for you!Grin

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mameulah · 15/09/2012 13:28

Moved in after eight months. Got married after three years.

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Birdsgottafly · 15/09/2012 14:01

Practically moved in as soon as i met my DH to be. Lived together properly after two months, together for 22 years until i was widowed.

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sades101 · 15/09/2012 15:24

This is going to sound ridiculous, but I met my boyfriend through some mutual friends and moved in with him the day I met him... we've now been together 2 years and have a newborn

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LaQueen · 15/09/2012 17:14

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scentednappyhag · 15/09/2012 17:18

We lived together before we were a couple, as he was helping me out with rent after I kicked debt running up cheating bastard ex out.
Got engaged after three months, married the day after we'd been together a year.

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