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Is it juvenile to tell someone I love them after 2 months?

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HairyArmPit · 21/08/2012 10:06

Been seeing a guy for two months and he's great, he kind, generous, respectful, funny, loving - no red flags at all. In these past two months I've seen him around twice a week in the first few weeks and recently about 4 times a week. I hate being away from him and he feels the same - making up excuses to drop by my house etc.

Now we have a bit of a test coming up. He goes away on Thursday and I go away on Sunday before he gets back for 1 week. He then goes away again before I get back for 5 days meaning we won't see each other or have much contact at all for around 2 weeks. Doesn't sound a lot but we're still in our "whirlwind romance" phase and after so much contact lately, it will be a bit of a shock to the system.

In a way, the distance might do us some good, give us a bit of a breather?

I want to tell him I love him though- or is that really juvenile? I wouldn't have the balls to say it to his face incase he reacted with horror so was thinking of sending a daft text whilst away saying something like "wish you were here, love ya :-) x just to test the water a bit (incase he doesn't say it back! lol).

Or should I just ... not?

OP posts:
Groovee · 21/08/2012 12:18

I knew within 4 weeks that dh was "the one" He went away for a week and I missed him so much and when he got back, he admitted he was in love with me.

We were engaged within 9 weeks and got married after 19 months together.

HissyByName · 21/08/2012 12:19

... And there was me wondering the same after 4m.

Let the time apart happen, you'll grow so much from knowing you can be apart and still be together.

Mine just got back from over 2 wks away, we've missed each other so much.

I dunno when the I-L-Y is going to be said, I feel it, I'm fairly sure he does to, but we'll see.

More tricky when DC are involved I think too...

JustFabulous · 21/08/2012 17:47

I shagged a bloke and half way through blurted out "God I love you" Hmm. It won't be a shock to hear I never saw him again and he ignored all my calls. We had been seeing each other though I can't remember how long for. I didn't love him at all!!

And if you are reading this, Paul, you were all pretty face and rubbish in bed!!

balotelli · 21/08/2012 18:30

I told my girlfriend I loved her after about 15 days...... expecting to see clouds of dust as she hitched up her skirts and headed for the hills.

We moved in the following week and have been together for 13 years and I still love her more everyday.

Netheregions · 23/08/2012 13:09

Did you tell him???

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