If a man chats to me and then puts his number through my door

[serengetty]

And then I send him a text to say Hi, nice chatting to you, pop in for a cuppa and he turns up and says how much he likes me, but is living with a woman older than him in a relationship that has no sharing, sleeping together, going out together, and constantly arguing, what would be the sensible answer for me to give him when he declares he has fallen for me..........

This similar situation happened to me months ago. Started seeing someone and after a month I found out he was married with a child and older then what he said. He also had given me a false name!

When I confronted him he said he lied because he didn't want to risk me telling him where to go and some other bullshit. Tried telling me he loved me, that him and his wife weren't happy and they had separated.

I told him it was bollocks. Funnily enough I've heard he's with the wife still and she's having another child with him!

So in my opinion run and keep running and never look back

They have no children and have been together for 2 years and she doesn't like it when his children visit.

However, I am well aware that i am only getting one side of the story.

He has told her he doesn't want to be with her anymore, according to him, but I imagine actions are louder than words in this case.

One side of the story, entirely designed to make you feel sorry for him and get him into your pants. He doesn't want to be with her any more except when he goes home, presumably . He has got 'big fat liar' written all him.

People are baggage