Feeling shy about spicing up our sex life

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I have a great dh and we have a good sex life. Over the years though, we have got into a pattern of him on top and pretty much doing the same thing each time we do it. I would like to make things a bit more exciting, but for some reason feel shy about doing different things. I can pretty much talk to dh about everything except this. How can i overcome this block?

maybe try and ask him if he would like to try something different at all? That might start up a conversation and help you open up a little?
Or maybe frame it along the lines of ' i saw x in a magazine the other day - have you ever thought we should try that?'
I expect he will be pleased that you want to spice things up a bit so i woudn;t worry too much about feeling embarassed.