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Nude pics of girlfriend

36 replies

imafella · 06/06/2012 22:36

Hi, I'm 37 and my ex is 35. I have 2 kids with another ex and none with the girl concerned in this post. Last year I found nude pics of my girlfriend on her phone. It was by accident. She denied ahe was sending them to anyone and got 1 year of bills sent to the house. She also offered that I could read her emails. I also googled her name and foundshe was on a networking site site and did not declare she was in a long term relationship (3 1/2 years). She filled in all the other details etc an no pic of me. In time the trust went and the relationship ended. I put to her that she could have uploaded the photos to this google plus site and there would be no trace of text or email. I also said to her that se could have another sim card.We are now back talking trying to sort things out but not yet in a relationship.

I need to ask you ladies if you can give honest and helpful opinions to help me here. Do some girls take nude photos so they can just look at the pics for themselves?

Thanks.

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Houseofplain · 07/06/2012 11:37

I'm genuinely gobsmacked at the number of women who take nude pictures of themselves on a phone. One it's never entered my head to.

Two, now I know how easily they are hacked and tapped into, hell would freeze over before I considered it.

susiedaisy · 07/06/2012 13:01

Does no one have a full length mirror in their home? why the need to take pictures unless it's to let other people look! ConfusedHmm

dexterthecat · 07/06/2012 13:10

I'm with house and susie on this. Would never, ever take photos of myself nude or otherwise!

Why, why, why???

Are mirrors so ridiculously old fashioned these days???

redfingersyellow · 07/06/2012 14:28

I am not really bothered about my phone being hacked/pics stolen, I tend to delete the really awful photos and I'm v relaxed about nudity so it wouldn't bother me too much if others saw them.

I find it more useful actually for clothed photos, to see how I look in clothes I'm trying on (and often let my sis/friends see those to ask opinions - we all do this). But if I'm having a good thin day, I like to keep a record for myself too!

DuelingFanjo · 07/06/2012 14:33

if I were you I would just let her go. You don't seem happy in the 'relationship'.

Enragia · 07/06/2012 15:24

How freaky to look at nekkid pics of yourselves. Weirdos

BertieBotts · 07/06/2012 19:42

I don't, BTW, but some people do. Bit harsh to call people weirdos because they like different things to you Hmm

pinkyredrose · 07/06/2012 21:14

Enragia : I'm not a weirdo thank you

EclecticShock · 07/06/2012 21:17

I wouldn't take pics to look at myself but then I wouldnt take pics to send to others. It's possible they were just for her I suppose but strange?

EclecticShock · 07/06/2012 21:20

If she's telling you that you can see other girls I wouldn't think her heart was in it.

saintmerryweather · 08/06/2012 00:19

ivdont take naked pics but while im trying to lose weight i sometimes put a bikini on to take a picture so i can keep myself motivated. bit fucking bitchy to call someone a weirdo just because you dont do it enragia

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